Most of these never come up as a conversation. They come up at 7pm on a Tuesday when one of you says yes and the other has already said no.
When bedtime is, who does it, and what happens when it stops working.
How much, when, and what you will both actually hold to once you have agreed it.
What you each grew up with, what you want to keep, and where you quietly differ.
Daycare, family help, who cuts back, and what it costs in both directions.
Paperback. The whole guide, written to be read. No writing space. Pick this if you want to read it yourself first, or you are giving it to someone else.
Coil workbook. Everything in the paperback, with room to answer built into every topic. You each fill your own side of the page, then decide together. It lies flat on a kitchen table and stays open.
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